Hello! And where do I start?!

Hi everyone! I just found YLF and have been poring over all of Angie's blog posts for the past few days (needless to say I haven't gotten through them all!). The info and advice here is just fantastic.

Here's my first question, and it's a big one: I know I desperately need to make over and update my style (especially my work style), but where and how do I start?

I just purged my closet of everything that was old/unflattering/stretched or worn out. Now I have about 5 pairs of black pants, 2 cardigans, one sleeveless blouse, and 3 dresses. Plus a bunch of random t-shirts and stuff that's not work-appropriate.

The irony? I work in a fashion and beauty-centric business, but I feel clueless about clothes. A bit about me: I'm 38, married with a 15-month-old daughter, and I work full time. In terms of style, I'd say I gravitate toward modern classic; I'm a pear body shape (5'6", about 150 lbs).

I would welcome any and all advice on how to start figuring out how to make myself over and acquiring great clothes that make me look, well, FAB and feel confident. Can't wait to hear what you have to say!

Lisa

14 years ago

lyn*

(website)

Veteran

Many welcomes, Lisa!

For a work wardrobe, I found this Angie post very helpful: http://youlookfab.com/2011/03/.....-for-less/

And if you're a pear: http://youlookfab.com/2006/04/21/the-pretty-pear/

And more pear stuff: http://youlookfab.com/2010/04/.....type-2010/

And of course; I found posting WIW's very helpful in the forum! Everyone is so nice and helpful!

Have fun!!!

chewyspaghetti

Welcome to the board, Lisalou!

I'd start with a bra fitting and new hairstyle.

modgrl

Hi and welcome! Good job with the closet purge. It is a great place to start!

Angie

Fashion Stylist

Another welcome from me! Did you read this morning's post on how to get out of a style rut?

FoolOfATook

Active Member

Just want to say welcome Lisalou! You'll find oodles of inspiration here.

Janet

Hi Lisalou, and first of all, I must say the avatar is adorable! I'm a recent joiner too, and it sounds like you and I are pretty similar in body type/shape.

I've found it very helpful to start photographing my outfits as often as I can. It's great to post them here for feedback, but even when I don't, I still usually learn something new by looking at a photo rather than in the mirror. Surprising but true.

taylor

WELCOME!!

Lisalou

Thanks for the welcomes! What a great supportive place!

@lyn--Ah, these are great posts! thank you for calling them out!
@chewy--ha, can you believe i have a cut and color booked for this morning? Bra fitting next--thank you!!
@modgirl--the closet purge felt totally cleansing--though I was less elated when I realized how little is left, haha!
@angie--yes, I did just read the post--perfect, I think it was written just for me!
@janet--aw, thank you--it's my daughter in her halloween costume. I'm scared to take pictures of my admittedly bland/boring/unflattering outfits. Maybe I should just hold my breath and do it...people here are kind, yes?
@FOAT and taylor--hi and thank you!

Looking forward to getting to know you girls!

People here are definitely kind. Ask for an honest opinion and you will get it, but it's always respectful and supportive. We often draw ideas ands inspiration from one another. I also love that there's such a great range of ages, styles, shapes, and sizes here.

Are there instructions somewhere on how to attach photos to a post? I did a search but couldn't find anything...but I may have missed it!

Hi Lisalou. You have to wait over a week to become an active member and insert photos. You can link to a third party site in the meantime, though.

Thanks Mo!

thimblelina

Hi and welcome Lisalou! This is a very warm, and helpful, environment in which to try out some new wardrobe directions. I started with a very small closet of items too. Watch out! These ladies kick some pretty irresistable ideas around.... my small wardrobe is chugging into the mid-50s in number of pieces, and the UPS guy just said "Wow, you are getting a lot of parcels lately!." Enjoy! L

(PS: I think the more you post little comments here and there within the various threads, the faster your ability to load pictures directly will pop up... That makes it all a lot easier, unless you already use a service like PhotoBucket.)

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