Thanks, all! My plan is definitely to just talk everything over with the stylist and see what we arrive at.
Khris, thanks for the reality check! Very thoughtful, and especially useful coming from someone else on Team Straight and Fine.
I definitely agree that the first style would take lots of work, but the thing is that I pretty much have always had to put in lots of work to make my hair look at all like I want it to. *IF* I can achieve the look, I am totally willing to put in lots of time and effort.
Rosie, maybe you can have a makeup tutorial with me and tell me what to buy and thus get some vicarious makeup satisfaction?
Kellygirl, I see your point re: too much hair in front, but unless I have short bangs or can firmly tuck behind my ear, lots of my hair falls forward like that anyway. That's just how it grows, and so I like forward styles where I don't have to try and force it constantly backwards.
re: the second photo, yes, that would be an easier style to get and maintain, and it's very possible that will be what I do if the stylist says I should. But, I feel like it's a cut I have had about a million times and would like a change from. Sveta, you're right that a short bob is one of the easiest for our hair type.
Queenie and Kristen, ack! Thanks for calling my attention to the highlighting thing--it totally does add a lot to that photo. I will talk it over with the stylist.
Ok. Thanks again, everyone. I'll report back after my appointment tomorrow.