Maya, I have been avoiding replying to this thread. I think you (like April) have some hair dysmorphia going on You seem to have great hair and honestly, it looks pretty fab in every picture you post. I have seen in in person and it looked fantastic! If you don't believe the 50+ replies to this thread telling you how great it is (and it's one of several obsessing about your hair), I don't know what will help???!!!
The other thing to keep in mind is not every one has a salon beautiful hair day every day. I'm pretty obsessive about my hair too and this summer has been brutal. The heat and the humidity has really done a number on it and even though I spend 20+ minutes blowing it out every other day, I still end up having to tie it up in a pony tail more often than not (something I HATE doing) because of the frizz! I have about a gazillion hair products in my cabinet and regardless of what I use or what method I go about it, it still looks like crap on these very humid days (part of the reason why I couldn't stand living down south!!). I say just wait a week or two and you will see that your hair is going to start behaving once it cools down a bit.