The devil is in the details and sometimes it can be so hard to predict that an item won't work, especially as in this case where you already had one example of a chain handled red bag that felt fine. Interesting.
Well, onwards, I guess, and I know you will find an option that works!
I am all in favour of additional spec, though. I adore your green ones but also loved several of your retro frames from before and wonder if it might be fun to switch things up now and again.
On the "garishness" front -- this is why I experiment only very occasionally and carefully with necklaces. I don't wear specs any more as a regular thing...but I do wear (at least small stud) earrings every day, and I pretty much always wear a belt...and with my short waist, earrings, necklace and belt almost always feel like too much on me. I don't see others as "too busy" when wearing all of these -- it's something to do with my own frame.