You know, sometimes stepping aside is a good thing. I actually took a small hiatus, primarily because life got busy but honestly, I did it also because I was quite offended by a couple of behaviors I perceived in the forum, and I realized I was getting the commentary here get to me. Stepping aside gave me some perspective.
I just read your OT post, and yes, you know we have talked privately about these things. You are not in your head, or at least I don't think so. I have always been a huge Mo fan, I hope you know that. So if you ever don't see a commentary from me, be assured that in all likelihood, I'm loving your outfit.
Regarding WIWs, It took me a while to post them and now that I do, I realize how hard it is to put yourself out there. It is sometimes upseting if you don't get much comments, I know. I think sometimes it has to do with just the amount of traffic at the time of one's post, sometimes there is no way to explain it.
As a rule of thumb, I always try to post, even if it is a small response, to as many WIWs, as I can, before I move on to the questions, K/Rs etc. Sometimes I wish we had a "like" button like FB, so I can provide a little comment to everyone posting WIWs.