Brooklyn, I understand your complex feelings about blue, and thanks for explaining them. (Are your eyes green, hazel, blue or brown? My late Mum's big blue eyes did match the blues she wore - which helped). You are very beautiful, stylish, poised, confident, and FAR from worn and washed out! Trust me!
My Mama liked her blue denim with earth tones. Lots of brown, toffee, forest, cinnamon, gold and mustard. Or dusty pink. She loved white and cream jeans too - and wore them with the same types of colours - and shocking pink. With black too. But brown bag and shoes.
I 100% respect your feelings. Always on the side of the wearer! I can think you look sublime in a blue denim jacket! But unless you like it too - it's a non-starter. Sooooo onto the DIY denim jacket dying project!
These are nice for you too