Kim, that works. I can order from Frye directly; shipping/returns are free in December. Before I do that, I'll call the closest Nordstrom's and ask if they can special-order several sizes.
And Zapotee, I'll call the flagship store if only to hear how things work and get some positive vibe.
Claudia, good term to know. I wouldn't have done that. Frye seems to have done a pretty good job at maintaining prices (at least for USA-made items) around the net.
SuperK (may I call you that), good to know about home pick-up. I suspect its advantages would be tempered by local delivery issues. Where I live, FedEx and UPS very often leave door tags claiming attempted delivery ... without even ringing the doorbell. Waited on steps all afternoon to catch UPS guy, who showed up at 6:30 with a door tag but didn't have package on the truck. Can just imagine how they'd handle a "pick-up."
Returns are hugely annoying, but actually, I have a friend with Asperger's (major strengths there, loves details where I just get bogged down) who's handled return shipments for me in the past in exchange for homecooked frozen meals. Forgot about that.
For delivery, I'll ask bf if I can have them sent to his office. He's really tired lately, has a lot on his plate and is still under the weather, and on top of that his car was broken into last night, so I hate to add anything to his list.
Really wish there were package stations here; they're so practical!
Thanks so much, all!