I will be attending a formal wedding this winter. The gowns i like will either make me look like i am trying to be a bridesmaid, or that i am MOTB. ( I am in my 50s and want some arm coverage.) I have started looking online, but would love to hear suggestions. I was thinking maybe a dressy midi... but i havent found one yet. Found a beautiful cobolt blue one but it was very open at the top and i thought a shawl would just complicate things. Thanks!!