That definitely makes sense, Patience, and I think it's a good point, too. No problem! Like I said, I personally liked the flat Oxfords with the outfit you put together. Wearing them with skirts and dresses balances the masculinity, I think.
Oh, I went to Saks yesterday, and they didn't have the cream Roxanne jeans, but they had a darker denim wash. I tried them on to see how they were and what size I would need to order. The back rise is really low.....I sat down and my bum crack almost showed. I think I will need to take a pass because I wanted to wear them with shorter jackets and things as well. Finding cream skinny jeans might be a multi-year project for me, hee hee. Thanks for suggesting them though, I'm still looking! I might get some clamdigger length cream or white non-denim pants as well, for Spring. Something like this:
http://www.jcrew.com/AST/Brows...../10492.jsp
Only, I would alter them to hit at the widest part of my calves, or just below. I think I'd go with heels, too.