Thank you all so much for your feedback on this dress.
So, here is the background : My mum gave me this dress! And unfortunately I have certain associations with how my mum dresses:) She actually dresses very well, is more on the classic side and in my mind dresses 'very differently' to me. So I guess what I am saying is that I don't want to 'look' like my mum (with respect). The dress is new and mum has worn it twice and feels the neckline is too low for her. It is a good quality garment from a store that caters generally to 'older' ladies:)
For those who suggested that a more abstract floral might be better, I think I agree with you. The floral is not 'in your face' but it's still a little traditional.
As far are style evolution goes, I do feel in some ways this is a step backwards (for those who don't know my previous employment dictated a more conservative and classic wardrobe) however as I mentioned 'classic' is still required for certain occasions, and I wont deny classic still figures subtly in my style persona.
Angie, if I may single you out, thank you! I am quite fascinated by what makes a look 'ours'. So playing with this dress which is so not something I would choose for myself was a fun challenge.
Given the positive support for the dress, I will hold on to it for the moment and I will try some other stylings. Diana I have a drapey black jacket that I will try with it. Golden and Caro I will try with nude hose as I think that might create a better balance, but maybe still wear the booties?
And Lyn now all I can see is the flower LOL.
Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts. This has been an interesting exercise and I may now post some alternate stylings before making a final decision on the dress. This iteration, as some of you picked up doesn't quite 'feel like me'.
xxx