I'm not sure I can give you enough information. I bought these shoes on the weekend. I love how funky/cool they are, but they were also very expensive. http://www.neosens.com/shop-on.....;gen=WOMEN

I am almost 40 years old. I work in a very casual office in a scientific and managerial capacity. My company's clients are law firms. My personal life tends to dinners on the town (downtown) and movies in the 'burbs.

I wouldn't have been hesitating if they were say a half of th price. But at that kind of money: will I get enough wear out of them? Are they too "fetish"-ey? Are they too "out there" for my mostly suburban/conservative life? Are they too trendy to wear occasionally for the next few years?

How would you style them so that they don't seem so "in your face"?

Or, am I just being too sensitive?

Thanks for any help!