Maybe if we saw more older women's bodies...and bare legs and arms when needed...it wouldn't be such a cultural taboo? Let's show em what we got!
At the moment, I feel pretty ok about the body changes. Grateful to have a body! But it's also nice to see someone I can identify with at times. Recently I saw a photo of the lovely Jane Birkin, now 68, wearing a sleeveless black dress and her upper arms sagged a bit and you know, somehow it made me feel just a bit more accepting of mine...which I also don't hide.
For changing bodies, there are of course, baggy or wrap dresses. I don't wear dresses to speak of these days, but recently I'm wearing some Japanese fisherman pants I like, which wrap and tie.