The phrase is tossed around so much but not as many very specific examples- more times someone will say, “ I resolve to buy the sweater I really want that I love , even if it’s more expensive, rather than 5 ( or 10) cheap ones from Target ( TJMAXX, Marshall’s, insert store) that are just ok”. Or also, buying several things because they’re on sale when the thing you REALLY want ( or need) is available but not on sale. So then the budget math isn’t there, it could be, psychologically I can’t wrap my head around paying $300 for one sweater but I feel like I (get more value, am a better person, if I buy 5 for $60 apiece. OR , it IS budget if you in fact have a budget in mind and NEED 5 pairs of jeans for your lifestyle, laundry, so you decide how much to allocate.
So, I’m wandering around to say, it is about money sometimes if we have too many clothes, meaning, not happy with the amount but feel like we can’t pay more, because obviously, more is being paid per month or year.
But a lot of times, “ better should mean, what’s better for your needs, or style goals, in the sense that if I’m trying to get dressed somehow if for some thing or to have clothing function a certain way- the feel, the care requirements, durability, or even to MATCH , ha, then I have to focus, have a plan, and ultimately NOT BUY the other things that are NOT that. ( sorry for too many caps.)
So it can come back around to cost eventually but might be tgat you spend less. And, as Jussie said, it’s not about saying, my jeans need to cost more to be better, my T’s ought to cost $200 or they won’t be “ better”.
For me the less but better means I need to have a better plan and more discipline to stick to it. That’s what’s hard. Too impulsive and then go, but I REALLY needed…
I will however give a recent example of what for me was an extravagant purchase. I have increasingly fussy feet and mostly wear, not “ sneakers” as everyone says nowadays ( I never used that term until about 10 years ago), but running shoes like Brooks. I can’t wear most fashion sneakers - some though. I like to have some boots to look different but usually have to have laceup for fit and can no longer wear refined styles, almond toes, etc. I hate “ flowerpot leg” for several reasons- pants hang up on them & I also want to wear with tights/ skirts. Loose fitting shaft is a deal- breaker. So it’s very hard to find a boot that fits tight on the lower leg without being a combat type. Also I almost always need suede. I did get Sam Edelman lug sole laceups in brown at the Rack for a great price- the heel is a tad high but okay. But recently had to give up my last pair of black boots despite not finding a replacement for the past year.
Then I saw online then Paul Green Nobu boots in black suede, very rounded, low heel. And it appeared that they had a very slim shaft fit. But they were $$$. For a long time I just went, well, I really don’t want to spend that, I don’t go to work, I just want to wear some outfits I like but don’t work w/o black boots, probably they won’t fit anyway.
But they did- ( I have to size up nowadays and so put in a 3/4 insole for heel fit) and fit extremely close to leg, with a back zip not laceup.
They’re not to everyone’s taste I imagine because they are so rounded, plus a slouch component, plus taper to the narrow shaft, but they work for me.
Immediately I was able to create/ recreate several “ looks” that I was missing, with clothes I already had.
The moral of the story is not so much to buy expensive ( for me anyway) boots , but it is to tell myself, ok, but you don’t need still MORE boots- wear these, there are already more outfit possibilities than I can actually wear , but they include outfits I really love. Plus, my feet are so fussy that I still need to rely on the running type shoes or a similar sport, hiking type footwear) for long periods of wear.