Things have changed for me. It’s almost 8 years since I joined the forum. I was 55 then and I am 63 now. Of course there has also been a global pandemic which contributed to my leaving my second job (in 2020) and then selling the medical practice I had owned for 30 years, in October 2021. I still work there 3 days a week.
It’s hard to work out what has changed in how I feel about clothes. I knew that how I was buying was not sustainable for me, I had an overwhelming number for me (about 200 counted items plus other sentimental clothes, dress-ups, old gardening/painting stuff etc) and my wardrobe was taking over our home. I think gradually, I have become more aware that how everyone is buying is not sustainable for the world, and it is really bothering me. I do not write this to criticise anyone else. I like how RachelNZ put it in her recent post, she wrote that she tries to show grace to others on how they choose to manage these questions.
Some time in 2023 I read a story about a 2022 report by the Hot and Cool Institute regarding how the fashion industry should respond to global warming. A former fashion editor from the UK named Tiffanie Darke decided to start a campaign called “The Rule of Five”. That essentially you could only buy 5 new items of clothing, including shoes, bags and gifts, excluding underwear, in a year. I thought I would try, but not tell you all until I could see how I did.
I did manage it, in 2024. I bought 4 new items- Skechers, a dark green cropped cardigan, a pair of wide leg navy ponte pants, and a bright pink summer top. Also 4 pairs new underwear, definitely needed. Thrifting is allowed in the campaign, if restrained, I think. I don’t thrift a lot anyway, because I only feel like doing it in store not online, so I need to see what they have.
Combined with my tracking and the #30 wears I have been doing for years, I feel better about what I’m doing but at the same time I’m somewhat breaking the only rule of this forum, which is have fun with fashion! You might have noticed I have been somewhat less active on the forum. Getting dressed doesn’t feel as much fun, even although I am still happy with my outfits most days and still get plenty of compliments at work which is gratifying. I think that’s because of the good choices I have made in the past years since I joined, that you have all helped me with.
I am trying to keep it fun, but I guess it’s constrained…