Like you, I'm a bit of both, Ladywone!
For the first time ever, my reality clothes make my heart sing, since I've focused on my style and a small group of colors, and have rebuilt my wardrobe over the past year.
But . . . I do also love my hooded velvet cloak from my Lord of the Rings obsession.
Plus my two pirate coats - one distressed brown leather, and the other an antiqued red velvet.
I don't have many occasions to wear these fab fantasy pieces, other than Halloween.
But I love to open my closet and just stand there gazing into it and feeling the love for both my fantasy and my reality clothes!