Thanks for the help everybody!
I went out and bought an eyebrow crayon. I like it, but not as much as the Anastasia powder. They had a color that was perfect. I tried it before you even mentioned it Angie and you are right it is great stuff. I just thought that I would see if there is something a little less expensive that works well before I jump right into the pricey stuff. Might try a drugstore brand powder before I make my final decision.
I bought some false eyelashes today also. I have the individuals in brown that I wore today. They look nice, but not super dramatic. I'll need something that stands out more for evening. I don't wear black makeup though so I don't know what to do. Does anybody put mascara on their falsies? I'm about to go try to get them off. I'm a little nervous about it.
Angie, I believe I must have eyeshadow issues for the same reason you do. I have big eyes, a big nose and a small mouth. Having eyeshadow on just makes my eyes look too big. That must be it! I never really knew what bugged me so much. I love the look of dark eyeliner and eyelashes, but with a nice neutral lid. Maybe now I can stop trying to make it work for me. Thanks!