Thank you all so much. Yesterday I went to the great makeup counters at our horrible Macys (!). I picked up Aquamarine's suggested navy Chanel pencil and then got waylaid at Bobbi Brown for the rest of the haul. I don't think that's a bad place to start this journey (especially since I use BB foundation (alternating with Laura Mercier) and have several of her lipsticks). But mostly, I couldn't bear Sephora yesterday -- just too much stuff, too many heavily madeup young men and women .... I needed a quiet "lady's makeup moment" in Macys. I am getting OLD.
For concealer, I am trying BB's instant full cover concealer, which I apply with a brush. It's a pretty thick concealer but applying with a brush makes it easy to keep the application light. I put a little on the back of my hand, dot the brush into it, and then lightly dot/sweep it over the dark circles (sweeping down, thank you Texstyle). The coverage is really great and looks natural. I think my other concealer is just too creamy for very dark days.
For eye shadow, I stuck to my norms of pinks and browns, this time going with BB's cream shadow sticks in both malted pink (lid) and vanilla (browline and corner of eye). Again, I'm using a brush to spread the color around. It's not terribly different from my last look although definitely a bit brighter and less dry - and these are moves in the right direction.
I've bookmarked this post for the future, though, because I don't think I am done exploring eye makeup. Sal, I'm definitely interested in exploring smudgy greens/olives next. Plus, I want to check out Trinny's line. And for all of you who mentioned the Nars concealer, it's my next one to try if the BB ends up being too thick/dry in the long run.
Colette: It's funny, I have the exact same Laura Mercier cake eyeliner (in Bleu Marine) that you and Angie do. I've had it for a couple of years! But I use it as for a going out look and apply it in a thicker line over my lashes (sort of a cat eye look, although not extended beyond my eyes). That's a fantastic product. I don't like the idea of anything near or on my eye rims, frankly. I don't like what it does to my eyes or how it feels, and it reminds me of how I wore makeup for a while in high school. I just prefer the other way of applying liner.
Thanks again everyone! I love all the wisdom in this place. And it's fun to see how many of us love makeup.