Janet, those shoes are a rock & roll way to do pink. I think they could be wonderful in an outfit that does the "hard & soft" contrast thing!
Yes, I've had moments like these. I just ordered these j/slides that are more girly than I usually go and contrast with my usual shoe trend (functional, tactical), but they should look right at home next to my red embroidered loafers.
I'm doing some of this in our little house, too. Sunshine likes rustic, I like modern/minimal. So far we've blended these two disparate styles fairly well. I have, however, thrown some wild cards into the mix there. The couch we bough, the headboard I'm wanting, some throw pillows and blankets, comforter sets; they're all a bit over the top with ornate details, luxe textures, and/or pop-art colors/prints. (Yes, when it's all finished I'll share pics with y'all and see if you think it works or not.)