I hear you Laura. It's very annoying indeed. The problem is that in Europe we just don't have anything like Zappos or Endless (at least not that I know of). AND most clothing & shoe stores/brands still don't have an on-line shop either (wish that would change!). Some brands (like Esprit) do have some shoes on there site, but pickings are slim. And if you want a real feel for what's out there, you'll still have to come and see for yourself I'm afraid (please do!-)
A few more suggestions (mostly quite expensive brands though)
Lori's Shoes has some Italian shoes:
http://www.lorisshoes.com/depa.....eptid=6639
Gravity Pope has a few Scandinavian and British brands
http://www.gravitypope.com/
Ped has some German, Spanish, Portuguese and Italian shoes
http://www.pedshoes.com/Shoes.asp
Bally has an online store
http://www.bally.com/bally/hom.....megender/D
There's Camper of course
http://shop.camper.com/index.xhtml?lng=nl
http://www.hennyjames.co.uk/
http://www.frenchsole.com/index.php
http://www.audley.com/shop