I agree with you IK but also appreciate Neel's point.
And I prrtty much do as Angie says... I have been scarce on here lately and no notice, no apology. But then older forum mates can likely guess why I am busy offline. Newer members wouldn't miss me.
Admittedly, I am gushy on this forum with thanks and sometimes compliments. I am not like this in person (reserved or socially awkward) or on say facebook or even gmail (graciousness deserts me in the face of PR sending 50 mails a day and *immediately* calling to say they have mailed me and could I see...).
This is because I feel more accepted and understood here than on many online forums and (a) want others to feel just as appreciate (b) want to be unmistakably clear in my gratitude (c) love indulging in this unusual sea of positivity as a rest-stop from my cynical daily life.
Also, styles differ in interaction and also fashion. To the point, I used to be a tad intimidated by your one-liners early on (while I was lurking). Couldn't decide whether you were being curt. But observing a pattern gradually came to the conclusion that your wit lay in brevity! And now I love looking out for your quick quips. And can see you don't respond on as many threads so are clearly occupied elsewhere, but therefore appreciate all the more when you do pop up. *And this understanding made it easier for me to delurk around awesomely stylish people when I felt like an utterly ugly-feathered duckling.*
So. Sometimes I think of old ugly-me and overcompensate on the warmth perhaps.
And yeah, Una's right. I wonder how Kirti is getting along, and I still wonder about Meredith years after she stopped posting her daily WIWs as I had come to regard her as a friend. It's like a neighbour who says hello each day moved away overnight... No explanation needed. But not surprising if you wondered whether all was well.