Thank you so much for your warm responses. They really brought tears to my eyes. No I will not speak much about the conflict I am living in - both externally and internally - because it is such a hot topic and I do not want to bring it to our safe and beautiful place. But your incredible empathy and understanding deeply touches me.
Thank you Dee, agreed that YLF is a precious oasis of civility.
Helena, thank you! Thrifting essentials, because they are so specific, is a whole other ball game.
Lisa - You make it sound so glorious !
Lisa (LJP) - The Prada coat was, to be fair, a (underpriced) consignment store find. I have a thing for Prada Sport (along with everyone else).
Cookie - And I salute your recognition - thank you.
pirouette - Thank you - it is amazing what people can get used to.
Lise - I do hope more boyfriend style jeans come around.
Irina - Yes the hunt for essentials is a whole other ballgame. Fun that you once did the sorting!
Roberta - You are so right, you cannot imagine what kind of weird and icky stuff I see. It makes me especially grateful for people that donate clean clothes in decent condition.
Carla - wow thank you! Maybe, I should post my finds more often.
Suz - Exactly! Once upon a time I would pounce upon every cashmere sweater I found. Now I have to be a cashmere snob .
Bonnie - Happy to share a goal with you Bonnie! In the last couple of years I have found that the classic basic jeans (Levis, Gap) are what work for me.
cat2 - Yes exactly! People consign or donate their statement pieces, their one time event pieces, but their perfect jeans and tees not nearly so much because, as you say, they wear them to the ground.
Thank you kkards! I hope to see you posting more too.
Right back at you Brooklyn. And thank you.
I so appreciate your support Sal. Thank you.
Christel So nice to hear that you have sorted too and understand how it changes how you see clothing.
Thank you so much Ket. You are very kind. And your thought about scarcity thinking when it comes to essentials is very intriguing.
kellygirl Your style is fabulous and I think we overlap a bit. I still remember when we wore the same crossover blouses .
Angie - Special thanks for your warm support through all these years. I am very touched and tickled by your words. I do feel well appreciated by my manager, who, by the way, is Dutch! Thank you for creating this wonderful place. I will never have the words to express how much I appreciate it and you.