Hmm.....I personally would look at Neiman Marcus, or Diane's website:
http://www.dvf.com
Also, I know Tanya gets some of them on sale at various online retailers. Neiman Marcus Last Call is great and you can order from them through NM website.
http://www.neimanmarcus.com/st.....&st=s
Unless you're VERY familiar with a brand, I probably wouldn't spend a lot of money to buy something designer from someone other than a reputable outlet. There are a lot of copies out there. Copies aren't necessarily bad, but you don't want to drop major bank on them. Does that make sense?
I just ordered a DVF dress, I'm so excited! I ordered an 8, which is the size I normally wear, but the style is A line and kind of swingy, so I figured it might run big. Even still it might be too small. Her sizing is all over the place for me--some shirts are true to size, and others (the wrap dresses as Tanya said) have been way too small. I've had to go up a size or even 2 sometimes. If you could afford it, ordering 2 sizes and sending the one that doesn't fit back would be a great way to go (unfortunately I have to order them one at a time in order to stick to my allowance).
EDIT: I just went and looked at the Julian wrap dress. That is a great dress. Very versatile. Are you thinking of the black or chocolate? You could wear it when you go somewhere without the kids, like on a date or something.