I'm going to be 28 this year and for the first time ever I considered buying elastic waist pants. (I then came back to Earth and almost cried for having that moment.) I'd say it has more to do with my shape (apple) than my age but then it got me thinking. Is it appropriate to wear flare jeans, a tshirt, and flip flops anymore? I usually end up in the plus size juniors department because of my shape but I really don't think rips and tears make a pair of jeans look better. I need some help! Of course, losing weight would help but in the here and now, I need to know where I can go to buy age and body type appropriate clothing.

P.S. Lane Bryant's "yellow" Right Fit jeans are still too tight in the stomach and too loose on the hips, butt and thighs.

P.P.S. I have cankles and very wide calves, so skirts are a very rare occurrence for me.