When watching style videos and advice, the most heavily represented style I see is the flop proof, sophisticated modern classic style. The most common style persona I see on YLF profiles is "modern classic" and we have quite an international and diverse group of women here, right? There is sooo much advice out there warning against the evils of being trendy and advising women to go for "timeless," universally flattering silhouettes. Honestly, this is false comfort. Nothing is ever timeless and nothing is ever universally flattering. But the point is that I KNOW this is true because as I said, I fell victim to all of this silly advice! As someone who had to search for advice, this is what I came across the most both in the media and within my own immediate circle. But if you'll notice, out of all the resources I found, the one I stuck to is YLF. For four years!
Advice for those who are into trendier styles exist too, but mostly for people who are actively passionate about fashion as creative expression and industry. Kate Moss types. The images are sometimes OTT and the clothing itself is obscenely expensive and the way in which it is presented is kind of alienating.
The majority of advice I see discourages women from experimenting with trends because they are allegedly only for thin people and models and the rest of us are destined to look like fat poseurs, trying too hard, etc.
The reason I stuck with YLF is because it offered some happy medium in between. Looks that are flattering, trendy, AND practical. Most fashion advice only covers one or two of the above max.
What people read in these advice columns, reality shows, and books has a lot of weight and influence. More than we think. It comes to us secondhand from our friends and mothers and sisters as well.