I think this speaks to why I joined the forum (Hi, I'm new here!). I haven't gotten around to posting outfit pictures yet, but I'm looking forward to it--I want the feedback. Like others have said, I think I have a pretty good sense of flattery and proportion. My problem is that I have trouble letting go and having some fun with my clothes. I'm a sewer (my dream is to one day have a completely hand-made wardrobe), so I'm hyper-critical of the construction quality and fit. I also think I suffered one too many teenage dressing room traumas. I was overweight as a teen, and remember many purchases that were made because I needed something, anything, and the garment fit. I had "dressing too old for your age" down to an art form.
All that being said, I do have a picture of my stylish self in my head, and I know that my clothes now don't reflect the mental picture. And I'm single, 31, with a modest disposable income and regular access to shopping in two stylish cities (Sydney and London)--I have no excuses. I need the feedback so I can get out of my own way and stop letting the image of the perfect garment in my head become the enemy of the fabulous garment on the rack.
(Edited for poor grammar)