>>I finally found a photo of a maxi dress that is more form fitting (not so big and flowy at the bottom) and part of an outfit that I like as a whole
Hey Tortoise, you being are what the NYT calls "forward." The slideshow accompanying the below article has lots of mid-calf lengths plus 1 or 2 true maxis.
NYT: "A Long, Lean Backlash to the Mini"
http://www.nytimes.com/2010/05.....7MAXI.html
I think between this and the dubiously-escapable "exotic" maxi looks featured in Sex in the City 2, my 10 y.o. Blue Lagoon maxi dress and I will be so backwards we'll be forward, ha.