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I should say that one of the reasons parties like this cause me so much angst is that they're affiliated with a singles activity club that I'm a member of. This event wasn't an official activity, but you never know who may show up.
I have to say, gatherings of that size aren't my preference. It's very in between to me. Not intimate enough to have any real conversations. Not large enough to do your own thing. I'm not an entertainer so I usually bring one and play straight man to their comedic act.
Anna your sartorial style is not mainstream. You have an 'edgy' element. Men are strange creatures: after all the scent that most attracts men is vanilla ( think cookies). I think you walk your own walk and that is awesome if that is what makes YOU comfortable. If dating is really important to you you might have to find different avenues such as an edgy nightclub or something like that to find a man who appreciates your true aesthetic. I know in this situation you received comments from women but if you are comfortable with the image you portray then that is all important. As Angie says " happiness factor". I don't dress in suits like many physicians do but go for smart casual with some eclectic/artsy elements thrown in. I never feel underdressed or awkward. My happiness factor is quite high with my work wardrobe. In my nightlife/date capsule I do have more conservative elements but that's the drum beat I follow. Think about what you want to portray and if your current style is enmeshed with it. If not, try something more conservative. But I think you will always be Anna-edgy!
I have a hard time understanding the comments you got seeing how this outfit looks like something I might wear. Even the necklace. it looks perfect for the event you describe and perfect for you on a conservative day. But then, I probably forget how absolutely extremely casual the US is nowadays. By the way, LOVE (as in drool) that jacket.
