@ cobaltblue,
@ bran888:
Aww, thank you for the extra self esteem booster.
This may sound silly, but after all my unsuccessful attempts to buy something dressier than a cotton v-neck pullover and noticing that for some ungodly reason pretty feminine tops and dresses tend to make me look like an undernourished underage transvestite, it was hard not to start thinking that there was something not quite right with my frame... so why bother trying to dress up, right?
This time I'm arming myself with guidelines and attempting another "mission defrump".
@ Scarlet:
I often don't get conventional aesthetics, yet find myself helplessly drawn to fringe/ avant-garde/ experimental stuff.
And at the same time I recognize the more widespread opinions on those things. So I am prone to saying self-contradictory things like "those awesome ugly pants". Self-contradiction is very me, in fact. I came upon YLF while pondering how to achieve a combination of polish and disheveled-ness that will be "just so".
And as for drop-crotch pants: I absolutely love them, especially the ones by G-star. Those combine the part saggy, part tapered goodness with detailing that is both crisp and grungy/ industrial-looking... and I just sooo want to collect them all! must... resist... urge..