I style my hair every other day. If I can make it 3. I say a little thank you to the hair gods and get on with my day. Like others mentioned I hate blow drying- I can't stand there under hot air in Arizona for 20 minutes. It's like a sauna! DO if my curls are a little fuzzy- oh well! I don't feel bad about not caring and neither should you.

May I ask- do you care to change? It is your body and your hair- you can do, or rather, not do, to it whatever you please.If you do feel bad though- then maybe we could help? Maybe post a picture or two of the bad days and the good days. I bet some of us have similar style, texture and cuts. Maybe we could offer some low maintenance suggestions?

Maya I really think you are too overcritical of your hair. I admire it in every pic you post. Who cares if it isn't "perfect". Fitting in with your lifestyle and allowing you to have a life is way more important. Also I don't really think you need a haircut every 6-8 weeks unless you have supershort hair. Much better to have one half as often but feel better about doing so I think.