Thank you SO much, Sydney, Kkards, Angie, Laura, Jane, Gryffin and Ryce. Your all raise excellent points and your comments are very helpful.
I have a lot to say/reply/ask, so I am going to divide this into a couple of comments.
In terms of color and standing out vs. all black, my opinion is somewhere in the middle. I do not mind wearing all black if there is a mix of textures and some lightness/color/accessory near the face. However, I have tried the black tux jacket over two black dresses, and decided it does not work. Not only does it look too heavy, the undertones of black do not match which bothers me even more. I will bring a pashmina for both color and warmth, and in the comment I will post options for your to help me choose.
Kkards, as you can see from the photos I have now added, the v-neck on the Blackk Halo dress is really small. I appreciate the sentiment.
Gryffin, I have a couple of interesting necklaces that may work in a way you suggest, I will play with them tomorrow. I also have a bunch of silk neckerchiefs, that I use for similar purpose, including one in pattern that matches the cardigan (some attached in Finds here)
Ryce, I will look for Boss Jemida jacket in the future - right now Nordies does not have it in my size. I also appreciate your advice about Elie Tahari long sleeved dresses - I will keep my eyes open for them.