Thanks for the reminder - I get that way about trousers (with pockets) in particular, since they're a hard-to-fit item for me. But I have to remember that means 'hard to fit' for my lifestyle & colouring too, not *just* body type!
I'm chuckling at 'strict' colours, though - when I was in the midst of relocating all the black in my closet (to a specific capsule wardrobe & gymwear), I still had some black items I would wear occasionally. I noticed people treated me differently when I wore them (one friend repeatedly asked me if I was okay, & others would remind me to talk/ lean on them if I need to). Lol that was enough of a push to relegate those black items to non-everyday usage - I guess they subconsciously seemed incongruent to my personality?
Anyway, moral of the story is to remember your lifestyle/ personality fit too, not just 'flattering' body & colours.