I stopped in to visit Colourmuseblogspot.com today, and while reading the July 11 post on "DIY style consultation," I was delighted to read this:
5. Join the http://www.youlookfab.com forum. And ask specific questions: give the situation in which you want to wear the outfit plus your style statement. Ex. I want to look sexy, relaxed and elegant on a date night to a restaurant. Or I want to look self-confident, modern and edgy as project manager in an engineering company. the more specific you can be...the more helpful your feedback will be. And make sure you let them know you wnat to know why it isn't working...and also why it is. You will truly see how the small changes affect perceptions.
If you want to read the article, here's the link.