thanks ladies for your input. Now, if you'll indulge my rambling....
Ana, this has become a closet orphan because it just seemed to have too dressy of a feel to it for every day wear-- it's angora. Also, I see now that it isn't the best sleeve for me which is probably what was keeping me from wearing it more (although i don't think I knew that's what the problem was). I did wear it last Valentines day with jeans and a black cami- so I guess I lied when I said I hadn't worn it since Christmas. But after that, I never had an inspiration for how to wear it. I put it with the leopard print for the very reason that I thought it would give it a more casual vibe- which I *think* I accomplished. RoseandJoan, I do see what you're saying about possibly too much going on. Perhaps I"ll try that combo with jeans, which would take away the skirt/leg/boot factor and maybe that will work better-- although, I will say that I might do it with the skirt again because it isnt' bothering me THAT much.
I did try it with my black sheath, that long chainy necklace, and scrunchy black boots the other morning, and really liked it-- but ended up going with the denim skirt and and lepoard print instead. I"ll definitely do the black dress some day and post a pic.
Ana, you are so wonderfully observant-- I love the way you see exactly what the problem is... it's your math mind Like I said, I agree about the sleeves, but I own it now and feel that I need to get a little bit of wear out of it before I toss it. I'm hoping that styling it the right way will let me get away with the less than perfect sleeve issue. Hmmm, interesting observation about my style preferance. I LOVE the rock and roll element, but feel very unsure of how to pull it off on myself. When I shop, I usually end up with lots of classic, tailored, dressy, and colors in the dressing room. I am fighting hard aganst that-- not because it is bad, but because I feel that I always end up with an overly dressy wardrobe for my lifestyle. So, yes, i'd love to incorporate a tad of rocker, or eclectic, without losing my integrity
Sorry for the ramble, and if you've read this far.... I'm thinking I need to shorten the skirt an inch or 2-- agree? disagree?