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Changes in weight/changes in sizes?

Runcarla

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*Please be kind when posting to this thread - to yourself, and others - since 'weighty' issues can be difficult*.

I am curious about how measurements and weight fluctuation affects clothing choices, wardrobe size, and churn. For a very long time, my 30's to early 50's, my weight was stable within 10lbs (150-160 lbs on my 5ft 7 in frame). My lifestyle was active with lots of recreational sporting activities and I felt fit and strong. Clothing sizes were 10-12US for the most part. In 2014 I moved/relocated - which entailed some dramatic changes to my commute to work and eating patterns and I started to (VERY slowly) loose weight. Two years later I qualified for a high caliber athletic event, and the resulting training regime resulted in further weight loss. I was at an all time (adult) low of 136 lbs after the event.

In the 2 years since I competed, I have NOT gained the weight back - despite pulling way back from the competition training regime. However, my weight does fluctuate about 5 lbs (136.4 - 141.4). I can be exact, because I weigh myself ONCE a week, and chart it in my fitness journal (which my trainer insists I keep.)

It took me a while to adjust to the physical changes and early on I bought clothing in the sizes I was used to, and that didn't fit. It took about 2 years to realize that I needed to size down. 8-10 is now my preferred/comfortable size range. I still have some well fitting size 12 tops, but don't often pick that size any more. Part of my big purge in fall 2018 was letting go of the last of my old wardrobe that didn't quite fit. That created more wardrobe churn than I was used to. However, I
I figure after 2 years I will remain stable at this new weight range.

Those 5lb weight fluctuations affect my abdomen and waist - so bottoms are the issue. When I am at the lower end, conventional bottoms without stretch are fine. When I'm at the higher end, I prefer flat fronted bottoms with elastic backs or items with stretch. I HATE binding around the middle.

If your weight fluctuates, does your current wardrobe comfortably accomodate those changes? How much of a change in actual weight results in a complete size change? Sometimes fitness levels change, weight remains the same, but size changes. What is/has been your experience?

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Joy

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As I lost weight complete size changes came faster and faster. Only a couple of pounds can mean a size change. I try to avoid elastic waists in that your weight can creep up without realizing it. Shift dresses can fit more than one size if the shoulders still fit. I imagine knits fit longer too because they are stretchy. Gain around the middle is creeping back but nothing seems to affect it. Anything with a waist line is affected but tube skirts are fitting longer than pencil skirts, shift dresses over sheaths, tops that have some flare at the bottom are fairing better than straight or fitted ones.

rachylou

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The short answer is No, clothing does not accommodate me :p 5lbs and I change sizes. 5lbs is two bacon, egg, and cheese biscuits in one week for me. It’s tailored pants and skirts that are the bad guys. I’ve never found a good answer to this beyond ‘spandex.’

Anonymous

Hahahahaha! Ok, I’ll play nice . Between the ages of about 25-40 my weight was fairly stable at around 125-130n my almost- 5’6” frame . I am fairly fine boned and have thin wrists, ankles etc and have fine features . I would have been wearing anything from a size 2 to a 6 , depending on the brand . When my marriage imploded ( temporarily , thankfully ) for a few years when I was around 47, I dropped a lot of weight and was down to 112 from 135 - in less than 6 months . I stayed that way for a couple of years but the weight crept up steadily after that . I’m now shorter ( haha) and although I don’t weigh myself anymore , last time I checked I weighed about 150 . I’m wearing an 8 pretty consistently , and a M in most things . I have bought the odd 10 , and I’m now up to a 12 in my beloved Smythes ( from 2 in size 8 and 3 or 4 10’s) . Last summer I dropped a good 8 lbs doing a version of the keto diet , but like all diets , it didn’t last . My body reflects weight gains easily , and comfort in pants and jeans can vary drastically from day to day . Does my wardrobe reflect these changes ? It sure does . I find joggers , athletic -inspired clothes , and knits better at accommodating weight changes . Is it built correctly though ? Maybe not . My love for tailoring means size fluctuations are hard to dress . ( trousers and blazers , mostly ) .

Jaime

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Pre-menopause I was a size 4-6, even after a massive twins pregnancy. Post-menopause I am around an 8 but it varies with brand and cut. I attribute the change to hormones -the kind that affect how much I care ! (Kidding aside, it's a real thing.) Anyway, I am 5'3" with a small frame and 2lbs (just one of Rachy's biscuits) can make a difference in how my clothes fit. The first thing that is affected is my "waist" but I have a variety of accommodating jeans and shorts. Plus my sack or straight dresses of course.

Sal

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I don’t weigh myself and never have. I wear the same sizes I did as in my 20s but the sizes are bigger now (I still wear nz 12/ us8 but I suspect 25 yrs ago this was a nz14 or 16) - I don’t fit the same pieces. I don’t fluctuate all that much except for occasional bloating.

I sometimes look at myself and think I could be thinner..... and if I was I would look better in skinny jeans or shorts. But when you have people close to you that have different eating issues I know being thinner does not equate to being happier or healthier. So I strongly focus on the being happy and healthy and try to redirect my energies here.

Roxanna

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Well this thread is making me feel better that I'm not the only one that fluctuates. I am also petite (5'3") and have varied through my life from around 115 -130. I fluctuate at least 2 lbs week to week and even 4 pounds affects how my clothes fit.

I used to be a size 0 and have crept up to a 4-6, sometimes even an 8 on the bottom. Honestly, when I post WIWs here, I'm always surprised at how *big* I am after hearing for years how tiny I was. It still takes some getting used to.

I was SUPER fit for a while and loved it, but then decided that other priorities were more important, so I've slowly crept up to the 4-6 range again.

I too ABHOR binding bottoms, but I love good tailoring, which is one of the reasons I have amassed a multiple size wardrobe through thrifting. I feel my best around 120 and I'm close to that now, but my love of sweets inevitably makes me creep up. Going to start WW again to keep it on track.

Anonymous

Actually Sal has a good point about sizes having changed. I can remember a size 4 pencil skirt from SimonChang that I used to wear to work in the late 80's and early 90's. This skirt would be positively minuscule compared to size 4's today. Weird. Even year to year, size changes are apparent at retail. I'm convinced it's all vanity based anyways.

Roxanna - I understand that surprise of seeing yourself in pictures. It's like , WHO is that? Lol!

Column

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Yep. Three pounds do me out of tailored bottoms and fitted dresses. Surrendering the waist has been a game changer. Since I own fitted clothes, the new purchases are fluid fits. No way to deal with multiple weights except with a multiple weight wardrobe. JJill, Soft Surroundings, and swing dresses have been lifesavers. I love straight or A-line sleeveless midis with a cropped jacket to approximate a waist. I keep my eye on EF and Artful Home—no purchases yet. Catherine’s is my new aspirational style—although I wear the fitted items when I can.

Irina

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My weight did not change much since my thirties. I’m 5”3 and between 105 and 108 lb or 47,5 to 49 kg ( sorry, kg is what I usually use when weighing myself). Although my weight didn’t change, I went up a size two years ago from 0-2 to 4 in most brands and from XS to S or M. This is due to menopause, Somehow my fresh decided to move from my skinny bottom to my abdomen. I ended up with a flat behind and a flabby tummy if I’m up to 108 lb, pants are uncomfortably tight the stomach area, if I’m down to 105, some of my pants are slightly sliding down. I adjust what I eat to keep my weight at a consistent level but it is harder now, after 50. I gain or loose in a matter of a few days but I’ve always been this way. I wear mostly roomy tops, so no problem there. I used to only alter length of my pants, now I buy a size that accommodate my stomach area and often must take in sides or the central seam in the back. Well, I should not complain - I don’t exercise, love pastries and chocolate

Janet

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My adult weight and size have varied over the years, within about a 20 lb range, with an exception of one really awful summer in my 20s when I barely ate, worked in a non-air-conditioned office, and ended up at about 118 lbs. I looked awesome in photos but it wasn’t healthy.

I’m now back in the upper end, sadly. Menopause is a factor, but I have to admit that even though I am active, I pretty much eat however I please, and that is not helping me to control my size/weight.

I have some items that I can wear now, that I wore 5-6 years ago, the last time I got my weight down, when I was running a lot. But of course they fit differently (jackets cannot be closed, loose items are now fitted). But for the most part, what I assume to be a 10-15 lb weight gain means I am a full size bigger than I was then, and my wardrobe has changed accordingly.

The odd and dismaying part is that I don’t think I look awful in my mirror selfies, but then I see a candid photo someone else took and I am horrified at how dumpy I look. I don’t want to care, because my weight is still in a “healthy” range, but I am vain enough that I do care. Apparently not enough to stop eating all the delicious things I love though. ;-P

I do not carry extra weight well. I’m 5’7” but light-boned — I’m easily 15 lbs over my ideal weight. This time around, I seem to be carrying it more around my waist than before. That has affected my clothing fits too — some things that used to be loose in the waist yet fit in the hip are still ok on the hip but now closer in the waist. And my bra size has changed too.

rachylou

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Oh yes, it must be said it’s not just a matter of weight. My backside has moved to my front, lol

anchie

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I think I am the worst case here. I am 5’6.5” and my weight fluctuates 20-30 pounds. My weight was stable at around 130 pounds until 12 years ago when I got pregnant with my DD in my late thirties. When I had my DS 21 years ago I immediately dropped the weight, but not with my DD. I went up to 167 pounds and stayed there for a while, but never accepted that as my size. I tried many different diets in the last 10 years and managed to go down to 138 pounds 4 times! But was never able to stay there and was back to 167 every time. I was 167 in January and now I am again back to 140, for the 5th time. I am turning 50 this month but I am not in menopause, not even in peri, that is probably why I can still loose weight pretty easily. But I am worried what will happen once I hit menopause. Wardrobe management is very big problem for me, and I don’t have solution to it. I shop a lot and I shop cheap fast fashion and scour sales because I don’t trust myself and don’t dare to invest in my wardrobe at any size because I never know how long I will stay at that size. It is driving me crazy and taking fun out of dressing. Half time I wear ill fitting clothes because I can’t keep up with size changes. I also don’t purge anymore easily items that don’t fit, just put them aside because eventually they fit again. I have big closet but not enough clothes at any size, because only about 1/3 of my wardrobe fits me at a time. And this is especially true when I am borderline as now, because I have the least amount of clothing in both smallest and biggest size. I never stay at the smallest or biggest size for long and I hesitate to buy those sizes.
Showing you pictures in BR Avery pants in size 10, 8, 6 and 4. They all fitted me fine at one point this year. But I am still shopping in 8 - 6 size range, lonely 4 is from previous time I dropped the weight, and they are the wrong season- I was smallest during the winter that time. Yellow suit for example I ordered blazer in size 6 and pants in 8. Pants were not available in 6, but were available in 4 and 8 and I went for the bigger size - how crazy is that?

ETA - forgot to mention that my weight gain goes proportionally everywhere, from my calves to my face, and I always keep the same proportions. My boobs go up and down about 3 cups sizes too.

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Kate

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My weight has remained pretty consistent over the past several decades. Because I'm broad shouldered and big boned, it would probably take a 7-8 lb. gain for me to change sizes. I never weigh myself; a bout with anorexia when I was in my late teens and an obsession with the numbers on the scale taught me a lot of valuable lessons that have stayed with me. It took me about five years to recover. I went from 136 lb. to 98 lb. On my large-boned 5'8 frame, those 98 lb. looked skeletal, I felt like hell, and it was an emotional roller coaster.

In the years since then, I have typically weighed around 145 lb. and can fluctuate a couple of pounds up or down, depending on the season. It's usually up in the summer and down in the winter. The real change for me came with menopause, which brought a shift in the distribution of fat. As Rachy said, the backside moved to the front! No truer words were ever spoken!! Plus, instead of gaining weight proportionally as I had always done in the past, any weight gain went right to my waist, and that has remained true in the years since.

Knowing that, I do my best to keep any weight gain to a minimum—much of that due to my cooking more and using lots of the vegetables I love, and banning as many processed foods as possible. I've also learned how to dress to flatter my post-meno body.

I'm very grateful for the body I have that was able to recover from anorexia without permanent damage, and do not berate myself for any temporary weight gain—or for the permanent one brought by menopause.

Style Fan

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I am another one that has noticed that clothing sizes have changed over the years. I have also noticed that clothing fit better when I was younger. This might be because of the way the garment was constructed or it might be me.
My weight doesn't really change all that much. I don't weigh myself very often but I have a general idea of the trend. In my twenties and thirties I was about 20 pounds thinner than I am now. I was also firmer. I did work out more with weights than I do now.
When I hit my mid forties I gained weight from hormone changes. Weight usually goes right to my hips and upper thighs. I also stopped working out for a few years. I went through a difficult time in my life. My husband died and there were some other challenges that happened.
I had zero energy and lost weight but then put it back on.
My weight has stayed the same since my late forties. My wardrobe does seem to work fine for tops and jackets. I could probably wear the same jackets that I wore in high school. Actually, I do. It is the bottoms that are challenging.
My jeans and other pants that fit me now would never fit me if I gained or lost more than ten pounds. I am saying ten pounds because it would go straight to my hips.

Vildy

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Don't think anyone's mentioned shoes. If I gain or lose about ten pounds, my feet are a different size. Don' feel this has anything to do with puffy feet or water retention, either.

Other than that, I keep two sizes in a few favorite pencil skirts and two sizes in a favorite bra, for the cup volume. I'm plenty post-menopause and can get a lot of bloating. I had tried the fodmap diet and it completely eliminated the bloating plus I lost 20 lbs. But it's boring.

So the bloating's back and most of the weight.

When I was in high school. like most of my friends, I was dieting all the time. I'm such a conscientious unwavering dieter with a will of steel - or was - that I would've made a good anorexic. I was determined to look like all the fashion model pictures. I wanted to be slender and delicate looking, fine-boned. Omitting the fact that at that time I wasn't even five feet tall. The last time I dieted for image was in my twenties. I then read the common sense observation in a book that the author was never going to look like those models, either, because of her bone structure. I had to read this in a book! I have thick, sturdy bones. And that's that.

Oddly, though, with this history, I have no real preference as to how I look, whether slender or hefty. I enjoy it all. Feel the same about how other people look, too.

Jenni NZ

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I count in kg so will have to Google translate everything to pounds. My height is only 156 cm ( 5 foot 1 and a half!) When I married, at age 25, I remember being 47 kg (about 104 pounds). In NZ that was then a size 8-10 as I was still a pear shape even at that low a weight (so I think USA size 4-6?) Gained weight slowly over next 4 years to around 50 kg (about 110 pounds). After 3 pregnancies and breastfeeding them all I was proud to get back to that at age 35 after having my big boy and feeding him heaps! Issue was then a huge appetite which I continued with after he finished feeding. So slowly got to 60 kg ( 132 pounds and became a NZ 12-14 instead ( US 8-10?), then to 63 kg next. Then came menopause, a bit early at age 46/47, and within another year or so after that on stacked another 7 kg to 70 kg ( 154 pounds). And there I have mostly stayed, an apple shape now on top of the pear, and wearing NZ size 14 (US 10) and horrifyingly even the occasional 16 (US 12). I decided this year to try to do something about it. I have started weighing myself and trying to go for more walks for exercise, which was going OK but not quite so well in the middle of winter. I have lost about 3 kg so far ( 6 pounds) and people have been noticing which is nice! I have reduced my portion sizes and tried to avoid ice-cream other than small helpings of it occasionally. I think I am not a particularly disciplined person in my non-work life and I also don't really like exercise, I was a runner in my youth until early 20s but not since, and don't like gyms. What I mainly have done over the years is buy different bottoms. As Joy points out up-thread you can gain weight without noticing with elastic waists, but I find them really comfortable and don't like the discomfort of squeezing into pants with zips. I don't tuck and I hide the top of the pants anyway. So for me, the small amount of weight loss hasn't made much difference except my biggest-waisted jeans ( NZ size 16) are now too loose around the middle. I am still wearing them as the waist is hidden. What happens with the gain, since it is around my middle- tummy, hips and bottom- is that I can't do up the buttons on jackets and coats, and some skirts wouldn't go near me. Again I don't particularly like skirts and some have elastic waists,that I own, so they can stretch a bit. Fit and flare dresses are my friends. The largish edit I have done of my wardrobe last year and this year is often of things from many years ago, which since the weight gain in 2007 would go nowhere near me. The weight since then had been fairly stable even although too high. The BMI at 70 kg was 28 which is in the overweight range but not thankfully the obese range. As a doctor I know I am not a very good example
I don't think in the past years since 2007 the churn has been that large because of weight, since the weight gain remained at a similar upper limit for all that time, it has more been that I held onto the too-small things for too long.

Anonymous

I am so glad you started this post. I will be back this evening to comment in more detail.

Briefly: Five pounds makes all the difference in the world and my weight seems to fluctuate five pounds on at least a monthly basis.

Those five pounds settle around my waist and mean a difference in one size. Even though my wardrobe is small (rebuild stage), I maintain two sizes of pants in my wardrobe. Currently I have four pair of pants that I cannot zip up. In late June, I panicked when I had difficulty zipping up my jeans. That would have been a major disaster.

These weight fluctuations are one more reason I want to maintain a small, well curated, wardrobe that I wear. Wearing for me is the hardest part. I have had to overcome years of conditioning to "save" my favorite pieces. I'm no longer doing that.

And as for shoes. I found fluctuations in weight definitely affect my shoe size.

If you go on the internet, you can find comparisons of a size 4 in the 60's versus a size 4 in the 00's. It is definitely vanity. Sizing has been creeping up for quite some time.

Anonymous

I'm with Rachy! Stretchy fabrics are my friend! Even a few pounds on me makes everything fit differently, or change size altogether. And I can gain and lose 5-10 lb at the drop of a hat. It's resulted in a lot of wardrobe churn.

gryffin

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I'm 5'3" average frame, usually size 4-6 (depending regular/designer) long legs but the distance from the bottom of my ribs to high hip is short so I have a defined but not narrow waist. After having my son my waist measurement when up 2 inches although my weight was actually the same. I usually weigh in about 111 lb and I don't think I have varied more than 5 lbs over the years, but I do weigh myself every day. However to wear the same size as teens/20's I would need to weigh less than I did at that point and yes, 5 lbs is a full size difference. I will be 60 yo on my next birthday and I don't think my figure has changed much since I had my son. Does anyone else follow Joel Fuhrman's "Eat To Live"? I am vegan (for health and ethical reasons) and eat a nutritarian diet. I'm also a big fan of Gena Hamshaw's book "Power Plates" which, although I've bought more vegan cookbooks than I care to admit, is the one I now use on a daily basis. Between JF recipes on the website (I'm looking at you chocolate cherry ice cream - hey cocoa and all fruit) and GH book, I eat incredibly well, am never hungry and have no trouble maintaining my weight - although if I made a calorie dense main, I will try and balance with lighter fare - but I'm always focused on nutrient density. This has really been wonderful for me, I don't know if anyone else is interested but I thought I would share.

nemosmom

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My weight also fluctuates 5-7 lbs, at any given time. It is most evident around my butt/hip/thigh area, but can also be seen in my legs at times, too; my waist and upper body stays the same.

I tend to avoid buying shorter or tighter hemlines, because I never know if they will fit for long, and I don’t want to store a lot of pieces I can’t wear. I am very careful about adding skirts and dresses, and I avoid shorts. Swooshy midis have been the bulk of my new additions, but I don’t reach for them. I keep a variety of denim shapes and sizes to accommodate the weight fluctuations, but oddly I have no trouble purging trousers, chinos, etc for ill fit. Maybe the stretchy denim is more forgiving with my shape than the rigid pants?

I do worry about the menopause years, and how my shape might change, and how that will impact my future wardrobe.

Irina

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Because of the weight distribution I struggle with fitted items. I bought 2 tropical wool suits from BR in 2015-2016. Both blazers are now tight although my weight is almost the same. My 2016 wool coat from BR is a bit too fitted now. To get it fit again I have to be lighter than I was in 2015. I’m lost - I need to replace at least one of the blazers but how to buy to ensure it will last at least 3 years? Sizing up is not an option, I have narrow shoulders and 32 DDD chest, I look sloppy in oversized blazers. In this point in life, I don’t believe in longevity of the clothes. I aim for 3 years, assuming that in three years even if I would not need to go up the size, proportions likely to change and I will need to adjust accordingly. I have a sentimental item in my closet- a 23 years old fitted dress. I can still zip it up. It is interesting and disturbing to see how much my body changed over the years but not my weight. The dress is tight in the chest and mid section, loose around hips and bottom. In my opinion, the weight distribution is as equally important as the weight gain. It is easier to deal with 3 extra pounds if it goes over the whole body. In my case it goes in one relatively small area and throws fit of. I weight myself almost daily and feel a gain of even 2 pounds.

nuancedream

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Two years ago, I was diagnosed with Graves disease, an autoimmune disease that affects the thyroid gland. I went from 125 lbs on 5 ft 7 and 1/2 inch frame to 108 lbs. Most of my pants, jeans and skirts were too loose on me. I purchased several size 0 pants and skirts and even they were too big. I hated how I looked. Once I got on medication and my thyroid normalized, I gained the weight back and I was thrilled because I looked like myself. My curves came back. Furthermore, I had no problem getting rid of those size 0 pants and skirts because they just reminded me of a low point in my life. I'm now between a size 2 and 4. I'm in remission from Graves and I don't mind if my weight fluctuates a few pounds up or down.

Anonymous

Anchie - your story is interesting . That is a lot of fluctuation on your frame size. I find BR clothing particularly difficult for size accommodation, which is one reason I stopped buying there. I too have had their pants in everything from a 4 to a 10, and have given up trying to make them part of my wardrobe, as much as I'd like to. Same with Club Monaco. I have worn 0- 10, and you'd think I'd gained and lost 50 lbs, not 22. A tailored pant, blazer or skirt is brutal for weight fluctuations, and I guess if you dress that way, you have to be very meticulous with calorie counting and making sure you are close to a deficit every day. My tailored pieces (blazers , mostly) are now a problem in my upper arms , for some reason. Buy them any bigger and they are massively big. I give up.Eileen Fisher, here I come.

kellygirl

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You all look so consistently fab in your photos that it's hard to believe there are weight fluctuations. I thought it was just me. I don't weigh often--hard to believe a scale can inflict terror, I know. At 5'4", my adult weight has run the gamut 118 to 130. I have clothes for both ends of the spectrum (sizing is the same but fabrication/fit differs) but mostly for the middle range around 125. I favor BF styles column dresses with no waist shaping because that's where the weight seems to go on me--even when I'm at my lightest, I find waist bands can be uncomfortable. For me, 2-3 pounds can make all of the difference because it all seems to go to my waist while my hips and chest stay the same. When my weight is up, I wear more BF styles and loose shifts or elasticated skirts. When it's down, I'll wear more fitted styles. Fortunately, the upward fluctuations don't last too long and can be reigned in with a more careful diet. I think I'm almost in menopause as my irregular period has now been MIA for almost 6 months. I'm not looking forward to more body changes but it's great to know I'm not alone.

Barbara Diane

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I am significantly heavier than any of you who have posted so far.
Generally speaking the larger the size the greater the weight change to change size.
I am up a size and while my elastic ponte pants still fit I purchased new set waist pants. Some of my tops fit and some don’t.
Sizes have definitely changed. I have some size L tops I saved for sentimental reasons. I thought I was huge because I was wearing a large. Looking at them I now know that I was not, and that I wish I had known that at the time. It would have made a significant difference in my life.
I am trying to appreciate more my body and my health, as I have friends with major health issues.

Anonymous

I gave up on dieting a long time ago because the only place I ever lost weight from was in my breast tissue, which I could ill-afford, being from the flat-chested tribe. No matter what I eat or do, I seem to stay at 138, although it will creep up from time to time, and then later go back down. I must have a very efficient metabolism. BUT-- since menopause, even though my weight has stayed the same, my midsection is softer and squishier and straight-up bugs the heck out of me! Thank the Lord for spandex. The occasional weight fluctuations don't usually necessitate a size change, and I'm very grateful for that.

Alicewonderland

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I’m petite at 5 ft tall with small bone structure, and I my weight fluctuates about 5 lbs without problem with my wardrobe, but at a 10 lb fluctuation I needed completely new clothes.

Sizing is tricky because for years I was a size 4, and I kept buying that size. Then I realize it didn’t fit. It was too big, although my weight didn’t change and my old clothes still fit. I had to purge a lot of clothes and go down to size 2. Vanity sizing is a real thing. For my vintage clothing, I am a size 8.

I tend to gain weight at my waist, which is annoying. Generally I buy either stretchy pants or pants that fit my butt/hips and wear a belt when needed at the waist, and dresses that have an adjustable cinch waist.

Currently, I’m trying get fitter and doing weights and noticing that weight increase of 4-5 lbs has not changed how my clothes fit much. I’m hoping it’s because I have built muscle.

Janet

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“I am trying to appreciate more my body and my health, as I have friends with major health issues.”

Me too, Barbara Diane.

Jane

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Interesting thread and super to read everyone's personal experiences. I can fluctuate 3 to 4 lb, which I am okay with. My wardrobe has sufficient flex in it to cope, but really there are two skirts and two dresses that I only feel comfy in at the lighter end of my fluctuation. I am so much happier with my weight and shape then when I was younger.

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