Those earrings are beautiful! It's amazing the messages that different earrings send, style-wise. I'm sure you are noticing everyone's earrings around you now that you have your ears pierced. I read in a style book once that "everyone looks good in golf-ball sized hoops" so I got a pair of those in silver. I read one of Nina Garcia's books and she goes on and on about hoop earrings and how they have to be super-thin to be sexy and big, but not so big as to fall into hoochie-mama territory, lol! She says a thick hoop is a sign of a stodgy person--can't remember how she put it exactly-- (of course mine a thicker from the side because I wanted them to be sturdy). Oh well! I tried a pair of larger, thinner ones, but they bent out of shape quickly and I kept getting my hairbrush and other things caught in them and pulling at my holes. Ouch! Also larger ones make trying on clothes when shopping a bit dicey.
My faves are dangle-y with fishhooks so they are easy off and on, and not too heavy. If your ears can tolerate cheap earrings, it might be a good idea to experiment with an inexpensive pair first to see if you like the style before buying it in real silver or gold. Or alternatively, buy from a jeweler or store that will let you return or exchange them. It's hard to know what you will like or what will bother you about a pair until you've road tested them.