Lol, UmmLila. You've put an image in my head that I can't shake, and now I've connected the word "comfort" with comforters.
"Relaxed elegance" has a nice ring to it, but I think I feel more chic than elegant. Elegant conjures up a very polished look that I neither have nor feel. Chic is, by my definition at least, stylish but not elegant. It's like there are levels of refinement, and mine is not the top level where an elegantly dressed person would be.
Maybe "Relaxed Chic?"