Great replies everyone! I knew my YLF ladies would come through for me, yet again.
Bella-not opposed to fashion jewelry at all, as long as it doesn't look too "fussy"? Hard to explain, but those pieces you linked look great and I've put several in my Target shopping cart.
Isis-I am still nursing and my necklaces need to be pretty sturdy because little man does like to grab anything I'm wearing. So far, I've been able to stop him before he's broken anything.
Aida-I got the wooden hoop. I think my toddler will love it even if I don't decide to wear it out. I agree that pendants will be good for me. Just finding the right ones is the trick.
Una- I have tried putting on the dressier, more sparkly necklaces with my casual outfits and I usually feel odd, like I'm overdone to be chasing my toddler through Target or the grocery store. I wear the dressier pieces with my casual wear when I am going to an appointment and you're right, it does feel fab.