Bunions on both feet, left worse than right. My doc, who is a runner too, said I could go for surgery, but I would loose big toe range of motion, and might not be able to run again after. My toes don't cross, but the bunions are pronounced. If I wear good shoes, they don't hurt. I took a pass on the surgery.
My mom had bunion surgery, but experienced other problems after, and had to have further surgery.
I swear by Asics for my running shoes, and Mizuno is good too. Merrell for gear ( hiking boots and sandals). I can almost tell by looking at a shoe if it will be good or bad for my 50+ year old feet. I've found stylish shoes of all heights that work...Naturalizer, Clark's, Soft, Frye, Steve Madden, Franco Sarto, and some other designers. I try on a lot of shoes, but they will not come home unless they are comfortable in the store. I refuse to 'break' shoes in.
My SIL who started ballroom dancing with her husband about 5 years ago, wears dancers shoes when she wants height. She says they are supper comfortable.
I get pedicures, and massage, and I do lots of self care with my feet, and it goes a long way to keeping them as healthy and as pretty as possible.