Bit the bullet, went back to Intimacy in Chicago and bought a nude and black PrimaDonna. I am not sure if the style is spelled Jasmine or Jazmin. Wore the black one last night for the first time and it felt wonderful. It was hard to pay 125.00 for each (with tax which is high in Cook County) but its a necessity and investment. Was so tired of ill fitting bras. Wanted to thank all of you for your help and suggestions. I had never tried PrimaDonna and think they are amazing for large busted women. The other style I loved in this brandwas one that began with a "D" (wrote it down somewhere, ha ha) and I might save my pennies and buy one of these styles in a month or so. Thanks again.