I have Gap and love them Ingunn. They are a dark color, which I really love, and the distressing is minimal BUT it does include a couple of actual (small) holes, which may be too much for you. But I love the fit and the look.
Here is the link to their current deconstructed sexy boyfriend jean, which looks significantly more distressed than mine and is a lighter wash.
http://tinyurl.com/mf4lg86
And here is a link to a "final sale" deconstructed sexy boyfriend at a crazy price -- $27 -- that has very little distressing and is darker. I would say these are mine, but I am confused because they are shown with sizing 2,4,6, etc., when I know that mine are a size 28.
http://tinyurl.com/k9mvtgt
I hope this is helpful in some way!