Thanks for weighing in! I'll post pictures with outfits soon (sorry, this is a work-from-home day, and I am still in my "writing" sweats.)
I think some of my confusion might come from the fact that this is a new type of shoe for me, and I do not yet know how to style them. I did read Angie's post about flat oxfords, and that gave me some ideas, as did your comments. I hear what some of you are saying about chunkier heels and more masculine profiles, but I actually like the softer, slightly sweeter look of this shoe. I also like the velvet laces (Diana, yes, they did come with those)
Janet, the high vamp shoes in a dark color takes a little getting used to, agreed, but I have black hair and long-ish legs, so I'm feeling encouraged to try this shoe with skirts and dresses too. I think it might less flattering but more edgy, if that makes sense, and some days all ALL about the edge, flattery be damned.
Shiny - love the idea of wearing it with tights and a girly dress (that's what I do with my Steve Madden Troopas) for an unexpected twist. Plus, with black tights, I can create a longer leg line.
Diana - I'm going to look at your outfit posts to see how you have styled them. These are the charcoal color (they look less black IRL).
Thanks for all your comments - I am excited about styling these shoes, and think I am going to keep them.