I'm sure you get these sort of posts, but anyways, here goes:
I'm petite (about 5 foot 3), with very square shoulders. I measure 41-31-41 (in inches). However, from the front I look kind of inverted-triangley because of my big, square shoulders and ribcage, but I still have a waist and hips. They're just not quite caught up to my shoulders, if that makes sense. Most of my "curves" are front and back rather than side to side, so I actually have a decent-sized rear and chest. I also have very muscular thighs and calves, with tiny ankles and small knees.
I need some tips on how to achieve some sort of balance through dressing. The main problems I have are that:
-I'm not very tall, so pants are always too long for me
-I have big differences in the thicknesses of my legs and body, so for instance, in jeans, my ankles are always swimming in material
-My shoulders are just way too huge and are probably what I hate the most. It's gotten to the point where I can't wear blazers because the width that I need in the shoulders only comes in plus-sized clothing--and I am way too small for those.
-A lot of clothing is too small in the bust/butt, and there's too much fabric in the waist
Help? D: