Thanks everyone for such thoughtful replies! I was thinking about this thread a lot when I bumped into my dotty trench coat twin at work today - we both have very different body types but we both love your dotty trench! - I guess this is what you mean MsKatieKat and K!
Adelfa - I found this is true, especially if the bloggers only wear something once. I like the ones who mix up some old stuff with their new things to keep current!
Gigi - It's so true and wonderful! I've sort of outgrown the style of Rebecca (The Clothing Horse) although I really liked her style. I really am fond of Amber (Forever Amber), but I always have to remember she is shorter than me, so "knee length" on her is probably not on me.
I would like to find a blogger that has a similar skin tone to me in addition to having a similar body shape and a dressing style, but I think that's a lofty expectation!! May, I really like your idea of "seeing how things look at an arm's length"!
Deborah & Unfrumpled - I suppose this is very true of everything that is mass produced! I always forget and get really surprised when I see someone else wearing a dress from Anthropologie!
Day Vies - I appreciate the honest reviews more than anything. The ones with the strange pinning (Mrseccentric that has happened to me and a skirt that I ordered that was simply so ghastly it hit the donate pile ASAP). Tracey - I call the source list my "cheat sheet" - and I totally feel free to raid that when I find something I totally love! I guess it's great advertisement for companies (which is also what you pointed out, unfrumpled and echo)!
Janet - I once bought the same skirt as one of the staff persons who is probably at least twenty years older than me. We giggle about it a lot, but you're right - it's styled totally differently! Even if we wore the exact same top with it, the whole look is simply different.
Windchime - An interesting idea about the Angie outfits - I never thought about that either!