Phoebe, are you sure you don’t wear it? I don’t think of myself as someone who wears it at all, but I quickly came up with a dozen pieces in my wardrobe, and a couple of ways I wear it. Similar to what you said, I use it to highlight other things.

I am VERY sparing with the solid black in my wardrobe - and do not want more. I don't wear black shoes.

I have these five solid black items, and that's it. I haven't worn the T-neck in 5 years. I don't wear the puffer either. I've been weaning myself off black for years. I much prefer dark blue.

I DO wear black in a pattern, a trim, a tuxedo stripe, or black lace.