I have a new bike! I do have bike shorts (one pair) but need more.

My bike pants have a big, diaper like pad that goes way up the back. The only thing is, all that "baboon behind" business isn't the part of the bike seat my personal bits are contacting in an uncomfortable way. I need something more like a feminine pad with wings, not something that goes way up in the back, to do the job of softening the impact of the seat.

What I'd **really** prefer would be something with an appropriate pad in it that I could wear under "normal" shorts or athletic gear. This is not something I have any taste in or expertise with, so if anyone can give me some tips, I'd appreciate it.