Hi everyone. I am pretty new to this forum and I am struggling with a problem that has kind of plagued me my whole life. It stops me from getting dressed sometimes, it severely limits my fashion, it hinders my creativity. Some of this is an acceptance issue but some of this is also practical.

I am 5’3” with a general hourglass shape, small bust and I weight about 140 pds. I have size 9 sometimes 8.5 feet. Not only are they long but they’re very very wide and I have long toes. I just have the hardest time proportionalizing or making outfits where they don’t seem completely out of proportion with my body. Flared pants and pants that cover the shoe are my friend. Does anyone else have this issue? Does anyone have advice for me? Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!