Hey, Aziraphale. Posting and running, so apologies if someone already mentioned this one from a few years back:

http://i.huffpost.com/gen/6009.....-570.jpg?4

Here's a pop culture one for you. A recent (like, last month) TV episode of the Starz series Outlander had a scene where a woman 3 days postpartum had to go on a road trip (on horseback) leaving her baby behind, and stopped to express milk to relieve her engorged breasts, which was portrayed graphically and very well. The backlash at this being shown on TV (in a show with graphic sex and violence, mind you) was only matched by the backlash in Canada, where that scene was NOT shown, apparently due to some sort of editing mistake, and the network involved had to apologize and promise to re-air the uncut version...

If youve seen the new Mad Max, breast milk plays a surprising role.

I have seen Mad Max, and the part with the "human cows" made me angry, I think because it brought up bad memories of how I felt when hooked up to that blasted breast pump with my first baby: used and abused. I had this idea that it was important for my husband to feed the baby too, so every night I would dutifully pump so he could feed her from a bottle. I still think it's important that he got to do that, but the breast pump made me feel like a farm animal (actually, the act of nursing also made me feel like a farm animal, but at least it felt natural), and caused my body to ramp up its production. I could have fed a whole herd of babies! There was just SO MUCH MILK, leaking and spraying and making me sweat like a racehorse all the time. (And my poor daughter. It must have been like drinking from a fire hydrant).

Mochi, that magazine cover is the one I'm writing my paper on! I have to do a reading of it, citing at least two of the texts we've studied this semester (Marx, Althusser, Lacan, Barthes, Said etc). I chose it because it shows a kind of mixed message: on the one hand, I think it's kind of designed to make the target audience (i.e. mothers) feel insecure (ack! Am I doing enough? I'm not doing that); and on the other hand, the image is clearly meant to inspire discomfort in general with the practice of extended breastfeeding. I think it encourages us to think that breastfeeding a toddler is freaky (which many North Americans probably think anyway, because we never see it), and it blurs the line between breastfeeding and sexuality, what with the way the mom is posed, and her modelesque looks and everything.

I'm not a breastfeeding activist (I actually think people go way overboard on pushing breastfeeding) but I kind of thought that ad was a cheap trick to sell magazines, and unfair to women who actually do breastfeed toddlers. I remember seeing it at the time, in 2012, and thinking, good grief.

No I didn't think you were implying anything, I was just sort of stating it for the record - because before I had bf difficulties, I was a bit judgy. Then I had my hungry baby looking at me and things changed. Although we eventually figured it out, I understood that other women might have a harder experience or make a different choice, and choosing to feed your baby can't be wrong no matter how you do it.

Late to the party but the movie Grownups has a 4 year old (sorry 48 month old) breastfeeding, and they play that up.

(My kids have seen that movie too many times to count).....thus, so have I.....

Not that this will help with your paper, but it does address breastfeeding/bottle feeding, and even more so what a number of you mentioned about the attitudes of moms towards each other. I thought it was really sweet - and funny. The dads... "It's not all about the breasts," "Ummm, yeah, actually it is!"

http://youtu.be/Me9yrREXOj4

it's not North American but it is a great cross reference - Little Britain's Bitty skits - where the grown man -boy demand feeds from his middle aged mother, and even the grandmother if he is particularly unsettled.
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I have a feeling that this won't help your paper, but I had an odd experience at TJ Maxx a few months ago. Usually when I shop by myself, which I was that day, I tune out most of what's going around me. There was a lady who came walking up near me and started shouting at the top of her lungs that she had a right to breastfeed and that she was doing it walking around the store. She then shouted that she would call the cops on anyone that so much as looked at her wrong. I know it's not the norm, but if she had walked by shopping, I probably would not have even looked up, but with her shouting, everyone around me, including me, looked up. I don't know if she called the cops on anyone that day, but all I could think was "Well, now I feel awkward".

What a strange thing to do, KL! Was she actually challenged by someone, or just making a point?

Anyway I don't have a reference for you but on the subject of strangely prudish views about naked breasts, I have a brief anecdote. Muslim women, especially those who wear veils, are probably the most "covered up" women you can imagine. Yet I was once in a shoe shop when a woman in a burqa sat down on a bench with her baby and started to breastfeed. With a visible, naked breast. I thought it was a startling affront to stereotypes about both women in veils and the sexual nature of breasts.

There's an episode in two and a half men where one of the blokes was dating a breastfeeding mother. I'm rather ashamed I ever watched that show - it was dealt with in predictably titillating fashion.

KL, what a very strange story. I have met a few breastfeeding fanatics in my time, and although they tend to be obsessed with the topic, I've never seen one go mental in public for no apparent reason! Maybe somebody challenged her, and she just snapped. Who knows.

Mander, that's also a fascinating anecdote. I'm trying imagine a woman in a burqua with an exposed breast -- it would be a bit like a draped patient on an operating table, where the only the important bit is exposed. Would it highlight the breast, or would it make the breast seem weirdly disembodied and therefore less sexual?

SarahtheWhite, unfortunately that link doesn't work in Canada! Bummer.

JackieC, Anne, Archer -- thanks for the tips!