Hi Angie and all,
Well you've all heard far too much about my black issues (the love vs. flattery issue!) which I have recently resolved with the addition of scarves etc. to my beloved yet worrisome black.

However, this fall I am looking to invest in a new peacoat, winter coat AND classic blazer as all these pieces need upgrading in my closet - I want to get these right and have them to wear for the next five years or so, and since they are relatively costly I don't want to feel like I am "fixing" them with accessories - particularly the blazer, which IS the finisher for me - I don't want to add finishers to my finisher!

So Angie - put my out of my misery, please! - which neutral would you recommend for me - black or gray. I'm sort of over navy at the moment, although I know that's a good one for me, and liking gray and black, so personal preference comes up even.

Thanks very much! Feedback from all is welcome of course!