Hello Abra! I can definately relate to the breatfeeding issues and ever fluctuating breasts. I have a 21 month old and am extended breastfeeding so I know that whenever I choose an outfit I have to make sure the boobies are accessible. Sometimes this is easier said then done and I think that is why so much of my style went out the door. I now live in mom sweats and tanks for comfort and easy (boob) access. LOL. I'm not sure I have too much help to give since I am just starting to think about fashion again. I've been reading YLF avidly to wrap my head around clothes that suit me NOW. But I will say that I find dresses, especially those that button up or are made of stretchy material and are somewhat lower cut, to be a huge help on those days that I want to look nice but still need to feed baby.
Also I agree with HeleninCanada about being kind. Today I tried on the three pairs of jeans that I own and wanted to cry. They don't fit! Okay after a deep breath and a few UGH I'm fat comments I realized that is not the type of model I want to be for my daughter. Chunky tummy? Okay... I can work around it until my working out catches up to my body and I'm back down again.
