Many thanks for your insight. Apologies if this question has been discussed a million times.

I am 45, almost 46 yrs old. I am 5'4", 120 lb, petite hourglass. I frustrate myself in womens, petites, and juniors departments. I look for clothes that fit, elongate, and are age appropriate. Alterations aren't always feasible, as fit is more than a sleeve length or hemline. I live in Atlanta, where temps can be appropriate for some sort of sandal 6 months of the year.

I own wedge #1. I am about to return it because I honestly do not know if this type of shoe is appropriate for my age. I don't want to look childish or like I am trying to compete with the college students by whom I am surrounded. Do other 45/46 y.o. women wear these? Or women my size? Ever? Is it too much?

Thanks and love!

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